Help! My best friend’s BF is hitting on me! |
| Your best friend is madly in love with this new guy and he is really nice. That’s great, especially if you get on with him too. But what if you get along a bit too well and he starts flirting with you or even makes a pass at you? |
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It’s never nice to be stuck between a rock and a hard place. It could well be she’ll defend him or he’ll deny it and make you look bad. The other thing is you don't know if he's really hitting on you. He may be just the flirty type. So find out whether he just does it when she’s not around. And if he is trying to get somewhere with you, you have to think about what kind of a friend and person you want to be. Do you want to go behind a friend's back and flirt with her boyfriend? How would you feel if someone did that to you? It's not ok and it's not harmless fun. He's being disrespectful and you shouldn't encourage him. Finally, say you fancied him back and he dumped his girlfriend for you. Would you trust him not to do the same thing to you? There are other guys out there who wouldn't dream of behaving like this guy. This guy is bad news and so are you if you keep flirting with him. So stop before it goes too far and probably, he will too. And there’ll be no harm done. |








































































