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How to Leave a Relationship |
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| Ending a relationship can be difficult and painful. Here are some suggestions to help you make that decision. |
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Can you work it out? Evaluate what makes you unhappy about the relationship. Once you figure out what's wrong, you can decide if you want to fix it or end it. Some problems can be worked out – e.g. you want to spend more time with your friends. A no-go If you decide that you want to end it, you'll have to talk to your boyfriend. Plan when and how you're going to talk to him. If you're really mad at him, it's best to wait until you calm down. Face the music Although you could break up on the phone or through email, talking to him in person is kinder and more respectful. Meet in a quiet place where you won't be interrupted. The truth will set you free Be honest and direct. Be clear that you want to end the relationship. Don't send him mixed messages that keep him holding out hope. Remember that this is someone you cared about once, and although you may think he's a jerk right now, he's still a person with feelings. Moving on Ending the relationship to date another guy can be tricky. If your boyfriend knows the guy, you might want to tell him. It will hurt him a lot, but it's better than finding out from friends. If he doesn't know the guy, you don't need to tell him. Your relationship is over and whom you see is not really his business. |
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